Love without expecting
anything in return. This is where pain comes
in...When you demand something
in return for the love you give. You are setting
yourself up for
disappointment because love cannot always be
reciprocal. Love between two
people can never be of the same intensity at the
same time and place. No
matter how much your partner loves you, she will
never be able to fill all
your needs all the time. And you will be in the
worst situation if you
believe you should love only when you are sure to
receive equal love in
return. You will be waiting in misery forever. Love
now. The past is gone
and the future is just a dream. All of yesterday's
aches and pains, as well
as the loves and laughter, are mere memories. Let
them go. Fantasies and
worries are for a future that may never come. Don't
dwell on them. Give now.
Give love now. Do I now and enjoy it now. That is
the secret of genuine
contentment. Throw away those destructive habits.
When you insist upon
yourself what you always have to be in control,
that
you always have to be
right, that others must always please you, you put
yourself in a very tight
spot.
Loving relationships are flexible, dynamic, and
evolving. Leave room for
change and interaction. Allow for new behavior and
learning experiences.
When we welcome these into our lives, we open
ourselves to sharing more love
and affection and less frustration and pain. Yes,
you will say that
unconditional love is easier said than done. I
agree.
Especially when we
have always believed that love is give and take. But
try believing that love
is simply giving. And you will be surprised that a
lot
of it, even more,
actually comes back to you. We can give without
loving but we can't express
love without giving.
"In life, love is never planned nor does it happen for
a reason. But when
the love is real, it becomes your plan for life and
your reason for living."

You can't make someone love you. All you can do
is be someone who can be
loved; the rest is up to the person to realize your
worth.

It's better to lose your pride to the one you love,
than to lose the one you
love because of pride. We spend too much time
looking for the right person
to love or finding fault
with those we already love, when instead we
should be perfecting the love
we give......

know the difference! Message: kala ko dati pareho lang pero iba pala!! basahin para maliwanagan naman tayo.

"It's definitely different when you love
someone
and when
you're inlove with someone"

explanation:

alin nga ba ang mas malalim?

Loving someone or Being in love with
someone?

marami sa atin ang na confuse tungkol
dito.

Ikaw ba ay may girlfriend o boyfriend
ngayon?

Mahal mo ba siya pero parang may isang
tao na
parang mahalaga din sayo.

o may mahal ka na akala mo eh mahal
mo nga
siya
pero meron ka pa rin isang tao na
minamahal ng
totoo.

Kapag love mo ang isang tao masaya ka..

Feeling mo ok na ang lahat...

pero ang ma-inlove ka, ang siyang
pinakamasakit
sa
lahat!

Kasi ang mga taong inlove ay ang mga
taong
ngsasakripisyo at ngpaparaya.

Teka bakit ka nga ba ngpaparaya?

Dahil ba hindi ka niya mahal o dahil
hindi ka
siguradong ok lang sa kanya?

Kung yan ang dahilan mo, walang duda
na inlove
ka
nga sa kanya.

Kasi iniisip mo kung anong meron kayo sa
ngayon
ang tanging mahalaga at kontento ka na.

Pero isipin mo paano kung mawala ang
taong yon
at
talagang hindi na kayo mag-usap at
magkita,

kaya mo ba?

Paano naman kung sayo siya inlove at
ibinigay
niya
ang lahat para sayo pero hindi mo
napahalagahan
ang lahat ng ito kaagad!

Paano kung isang araw naguluhan na
siya sayo ng
husto at maisipang lumayo na lang?

Paano kung sa sobrang pagiging iba mo
sa kanya
di
ka na niya kausapin at tuldukan na niya
ng tuluyan
kung ano na ang meron kayo?

Then bigla mong na realize kung gaano
ka
importante sayo ang bawat isa kaya lang
wala na
siya!

Kaya mo ba?

Kung hindi ang sagot mo, malinaw na
inlove ka
nga...

Paano naman pag mahal mo lang, kapag
mahal mo
lang,

alam mo na palagi kang may choice,

ayaw mo siyang mawala dahil alam
mong wala
kang
ipapalit.

Yung masaya ka sa kanya pero sa gabi
hindi
naman siya ang iniisip mo.

Mahal mo siya pero aminado ka sa sarili
mo na
balang araw hindi siya ang pakakasalan
mo.

Mahal mo siya pero ang puso mo hindi
lang pra sa
kanya..

Mahal mo at masasaktan ka pagnawala
siya pero
alm mo na kaya mo yon.

Ngayon anong nararamdaman mo
ngayon: DO
YOU LOVE
SOMEONE or YOU'RE INLOVE WITH
SOMEONE?

Isang araw magigising ka na lang na
INLOVE ka na
nga pero kahit anong gawin mo ay huli
na.

Dahil maaaring yung taong INLOVE din
sayo ay
wala
na pala.

Tandaan mo: Masyadong mapaglaro ang
puso
huwag
tayo magpaloko!!!

We learn to love someone pero minsan
lang
dumating
sa atin ang pagkakataong ma-inlove!!!

Kaya kapag dumating ito, ano ang
gagawin mo?

Post mo ulit ito at tulungan natin na
maliwanagan
ang
iba...

This is real, nkatulong na ito sa iba,
at ito ang naging dahilan para masabi
niya ang
totoo sa taong inlove siya...

Friendship is a quiet walk in the park
with the one you trust
Love is when you feel like you are the
only two around

Friendship is when they gaze into your
eyes and you know they care
Love is when they gaze into your eyes
and it warms your heart

Friendship is being close even when
you are far apart
Love is when you can still feel their hand
on your heart when they are not near

Friendship is hoping that they experience
the very best
Love is when you bring them the very best

Friendship occupies your mind
Love occupies your soul

Friendship is knowing that you will always
try to be there when in need
Love is when you will give up everything
to be at their side

Friendship is a warm smile in the winter
Love is a warming touch that sends a
pulse through your heart

Love is a beautiful smile to which nothing
compares
A tender laugh, which opens your heart
A single touch that melts away your fears
A smell that reminds you of the tenderness
of heaven
A voice that reminds you of the innocence of youth

Friendship can survive without love
Love cannot live without friendship

dianne	Jan 27, 05	Delete
pano ba mainlove ng seryoso kc magulo kc hindi ko alam kung mahal ko yung isang tao .... grbe pag nawala dun ko plang malalaman mahal ko pla yung isang tao na un ... grabe

Its over. Finally, I can breathe. I can have a life
again, something apart from always trying to be
there for you. I can stop trying to understand,
trying to make you see that we can work through
this, that our love is worth fighting for. All the
uncertainty, all the confusion, all the pain of not
knowing where I went wrong, is finally over.
D*mn you for putting me through all that. D*mn
you for taking my belief in love, my belief in forever,
my belief in you, and handing them back to me
broken, saying you cant deal with them anymore.
You will never know how much you hurt me by just
giving up, you will never know how much you
scared me from loving as much as I loved you ever
again.

I did not deserve to be hurt that way. And you
didnt deserve my trust.

So much wasted emotion. I had so much more
tenderness to give, I could have stayed with you
longer, but you didnt think it would be worth our
while. I know you still love me, as I know that you
were too d*mned scared to be vulnerable. And I
was stupid enough to hope I can help you conquer
that fear, or live with it, so that you can take the
risk of letting me into your heart. Not anymore.
You would rather hurt me than let down your
guard.

I loved you. Honestly, bravely, intensely I loved
you. But it wasnt enough.

I hate the fact that we could have saved us, but we
didnt. We simply gave up something rare,
something that doesnt come along everyday. I
hate the emptiness. I hate the regrets.

But the worst thing about all this is the simple,
stupid, pathetic truth that I miss you. I miss you. I
knew losing you would be painful, but pain, I can
deal with. I can cope with the sharp, intense rush
of emotion that cuts like a knife, but is relieved
somehow by tears and is dulled by the passage of
time. What I didnt expect was the sadness the
steady, lingering hurt that comes with the
realization that you will never again look at me as if
Im precious, special, and infinitely cherished, you
will never again call me garnet ko with the tender
amazement that I really am yours. Its the
constant heaviness that haunts me and makes me
wonder if Ill ever be whole again without you, of if
Ill always mourn the part of me that died with our
love. I miss you. And Im to be totally honest with
myself, Ill have to admit that Id do anything, give
everything even go through all the confusion again,
just to find a way for you to keep believing in us.
But theres no chance of that.

Some goodbyes are final. I have a feeling this one
is.

:(

"Love is blind and lovers cannot see"

We always hear this line being said by both young and old lovers. This saying has become so common that it can justify a lot of mistakes. It can even be used to explain a different thing and make it appear so conventionally acceptable. For instance, when a beautiful daughter of very religious parents is heart over in love with a street bastard, people always say "love is blind." When a seven-footer basketball player marries a three-footer home lady, people say "love must climb because lovers cannot reach." When a ninety-four year old war veteran is so closely engaged with a fourth year high school teener, people conclude "love is a crime because lovers corrupt." But when we see some couples who stay together and celebrate their golden anniversaries, people admire and say "love truly shines even though lovers decline. "And yet there are people who grow old and do not care to look for love from someone. They are the ones whom we say "love cannot find because lovers do not mind."

The blindness of love is always attributed to the willingness of the lover to sacrifice or to do whatever pleases the one he or she loves. It is out of this fundamental basis that couples pledge each other to live together "for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and health until death" do they part. That pledge capsulizes an unconditional expression of love from out of one's consent and free will. That is why, it does not know how to refuse. It cannot displease the subject of love. True love does everything to bridge the gap. True love does everything to comfort the afflicted. It knows how to find a way to reach the point of destiny.